Stir together ingredients for bang bang sauce and chill until needed.
Dice tomato, shred lettuce, and thin sour cream; set aside until needed.
Place flour, pepper, salt and garlic powder into a large plastic bag and set aside.
Whisk egg with water in a bowl and set aside.
Place shrimp in the plastic bag with the seasoned flour; crimp end of bag shut and shake vigorously until shrimp are flour coated.
Heat cooking oil in a large skillet about 1/2-inch deep until hot, but not smoking.
Lift the shrimp out of the coating flour, shaking off excess; and coat them with beaten egg.
Place the egg-dipped shrimp back in the bag with the remaining seasoned flour and repeat the shaking.
Lift shrimp out of bag, shaking off excess flour and place on a platter.
Fry shrimp in batches until golden on both sides, 2-3 minutes.
Drain cooked shrimp on paper toweling.
Griddle tortillas until warm and pliable.
Toss cooked shrimp with bang bang sauce.
Make tacos with lettuce, coated shrimp, diced tomatoes and a drizzle of sour cream (thinned with the milk to a drizzling consistency). I put my thin sour cream in a squeeze type bottle typically used for ketchup, but you can drizzle with a spoon. Serve with lime wedges.